Today is the second post in my Rethinking Home series. Find the first post here.
Today I’m sharing with you a room in my house you’ve never seen before. Its not in my house tour because, well, I guess I haven’t deemed it house tour “worthy.” I’d like to do something to it, but I just haven’t figured out what to do yet. It needs some updating and yet those updates feel overwhelming.
This would be our master bathroom. Our home was built in the year 2000 and the room hasn’t been touched much since then, except a few cosmetic things. We had wallpaper removed and painted it a neutral color when we first moved in (my favorite gray). We also added some towel hooks, hung up a few things on the wall, and I always love adding in some greenery.
The natural light is nice and I’m so glad the tub and shower surround are white and bright.
The grout is old and cracking, the vanity is low, the countertops are yellowing, and the plumbing needs work. I’d also love to update those mirrors and light fixtures. I’m sure the vanity wood is not real wood, because the paint that covers it is peeling off not in the way paint peels. Vinyl or something I guess? I don’t really know much about it but it doesn’t seem like something I can just paint over.
We had a contractor come look at it and give us an estimate to gut it all and start fresh, keeping the same footprint but really making all our dreams come true for the space. One of the most concerning parts is a thin crack running all the way down the room that’s also starting to creep up the base of the toilet.
The money required was enough to make our jaws drop and since then we’ve done nothing.
But why does it have to be all or nothing? We have decided that this is our house. Its not perfect and of course it never will be, but we want to invest in it (and fix any issues it has) and I know that bathrooms and kitchens make the most difference for resale value. We also are the ones living here now, so we’d like to enjoy it for ourselves too and not just fix it up for someone else to enjoy if we sell it one day.
So I just need to rethink this idea of renovation. Renovation does not have to mean all or nothing. It can definitely mean doing something and maximizing the results with just a few changes. I mean, doing something is better than doing nothing, right? I don’t know why I’m having a harder time with this all or nothing thinking in my bathroom, because I was able to do it with our kitchen.
There was no major renovation that took place, but we changed out the floors and the backsplash and had the cabinets painted. We added texture and charm, color and pattern. I had a vision and then we made it come together on the budget we had.
So for now I’m in the dreaming stages but I’m also trying to think more creatively and open my mind to how I can change this bathroom without thinking it has to be all our dreams coming true or nothing at all. Here are some bathrooms that I love. You know I’m a contrast girl, but I also love a casual, almost bohemian feeling.
I’m not exactly sure what will happen in this bathroom, but I know that we don’t plan to go into debt over it and that it doesn’t have to live up to perfection or dream home status to be beautiful and work for us. While we still plan to wait a while to save up money and dream on Pinterest, we are definitely not waiting to discover oil in our backyard or win the lottery (which would mean it would never happen). We’re rethinking renovation and in the process rethinking home. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing!
What about you? How have you rethought renovation for your home? Have you done a facelift to a room that didn’t require a huge, all out Fixer Upper style renovation? I’d love to hear about it in the comments or see it on instagram! Tag me (@thehouseoffigs) and use the hashtag #rethinkinghome to share it!