Aka the world’s longest blog post title.
I get asked a lot how my business is going. I so appreciate friends being interested in my work! And my answer varies. In fact, sometimes I’m not really sure how to answer. I do still take clients and I do still work. My littlest guy is in school two days a week now so that has opened up some time to work. Its also shown me that I don’t enjoy working the entire time he’s at school and that for my own sanity I enjoy taking some of that time to do other things like grocery shop and clean my house, listen to podcasts & music, or just watch tv. I know that all of this is a complete luxury and for that I’m very grateful. Not all women have the option of choosing when and how much to work and I’m aware of that. So I say all of this out of that knowledge and with a grateful heart of the situation I’m in.
Sometimes I wonder why I haven’t pursued my business more, why I haven’t taken it “to the next level.” Why don’t I feel a drive to grow my client base, make things more “official,” etc? Some of it, I think for sure, is a little bit of fear. I don’t actually know much of anything about business. I know what I’ve taught myself about design, I know what I love to do, and that’s about it. I struggle with pricing myself and how much my service should be worth. I struggle at times with “selling” my ideas and my view of design because I truly believe it is SO subjective.
I admire my favorite designers like Lauren Liess, Shea McGee, Emily Henderson. They all work so hard and have such a defined style and client base. I wonder about what it must take to get to that point. What kind of ambition, sacrifices, hours of hard work, constant learning from mistakes, networking, etc has it taken?
I told myself at the beginning of this year when my littlest started preschool I was going to take the year to decide if I was really going to “go for it” in that sense. That I would pray, work, use the year to educate myself in the business world some and then decide: will I go for it or will I just stop? I’ve spent so long just sort of awkwardly wavering in between. Always on the edge of fear and ambition.
And so I have done exactly that over the past few months.
I’ve prayed, I’ve read, I’ve taken on some new projects, I even signed up for a design business class with Holly Mathis (another designer who’s work I truly admire!!) that will happen later this month. More on that later, for sure.
And now I find myself in a little different mindset: does it really have to be all or nothing?
I read Present over Perfect recently (more on that later, too) and I resonated with so much of it. If you’ve read it you know it speaks a lot to the workaholic (which I am not). But it also speaks to remembering to be present in the moments when you’d rather distract or numb. I can often find myself being lazy and/or afraid, desiring to numb rather than face whatever’s really going on. And that distracts from my goal of doing this work thing intentionally. That’s the word that’s coming to me in this season. That’s how I desire this to be whether its small or big or nothing at all. Whatever it is, I want it to be thoughtful and intentional. Not haphazard and certainly not motivated by fear.
So for now I work in a small way. And I’m discovering thats okay. It doesn’t mean I’m afraid. I can work in confidence and take on what I feel capable taking on. I want to take on what is good for our family and then say no. I’m still learning how that looks for now, but anyway, that’s the long answer to “how’s your work going?” in case you ever wondered. 🙂
If you’ve read this far, you get a trophy now. Thanks, friends, I’ll be back soon.