No home is perfect. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Did you build your own home? Did you design it? Can I please ask you if it is perfect and fulfills your every house-dream come true? I just have this sneaking suspicion that the answer is going to be no. I think homes are just like everything else- imperfect. Though I do agree that some, due to ingenious design or beautiful decor may seem more perfect than others. You know, the ones with the huge pantries or the outlets inside the bathroom drawers. I knew someone with a house that had all of the bedrooms upstairs and so the laundry room was up there too. Brilliant, right? Seems like a simple thing but not to the mom who’s constantly dragging everyone’s laundry downstairs. Whoever thought of that was a design genius.
Now maybe you can’t reroute your laundry room to the upstairs (or maybe you can!), but maybe there’s something frustrating you over and over again that you could fix? Maybe it just takes a little brainstorming, a little rethinking of your home, a little going outside the box?
I recently listened to an interview with Gabrielle Blair, blogger at Design Mom (you can catch the interview here if you’re interested) and she was talking about this very thing. She gave an example saying that if your bedroom is set up in a way that you’re waking up and stubbing your toe on a dresser every single morning, that just puts you in a bad mood. Then you go out and see your kids and you’re already frustrated. If this is happening every single day, why not move the dresser or get a new one? Or if you’re yelling at your kids every morning because they can’t find the hairbrush. Why not buy a few more to keep in different bathrooms in the house? Spending maybe $15 to stop yelling at your kids every morning? Sign me up!
She gave those examples to illustrate a bigger idea- that when you look for the repetitive triggers of frustration throughout your home and try to solve them, they can really help create this calm and well designed home that we’d all like to have.
So I’ve pinpointed a few of those “triggers” for me. I’ve discovered that in our home and for me, the points of frustration have to do with a drop spot, dirty socks, and “smalls.”
- The Drop Spot: This one is huge. Every home needs a drop spot in my opinion. When you come in the door, you have things you need to drop- keys, backpacks, wallets. A lot of times you need to deal with those things- like mail, homework, receipts, etc. But sometimes you just don’t want to deal with those things yet, you just want a place to put them for a while so you can rest your weary self from the outside world and put your feet up for a while. Here enters the drop spot! This cute little back pack/purse/jacket spot is from my friend Julie’s house. I love those hooks she hung up! Below that is my foyer. The baskets are for my kids shoes and the tray is for my man-keys, wallet, sunglasses- all corralled into one rectangular tray. Hallelujah for the drop spot!
- Dirty Socks: We have a spot for shoes when my kids walk in. But surely they couldn’t be expected to put their dirty socks all the way upstairs in their hampers? Or maybe into the laundry room? Its just a few steps away!! The dirty socks on the couch, on the rug, sometimes even outside were driving me batty. And I was becoming that nagging mom- put away your dirty socks! Finally, I came up with a solution. Why not use one of these little baskets for dirty laundry, too? Okay, its a little unconventional to have a dirty basket in your foyer, but its hidden and oh so convenient.
- “Smalls”: These are the little papers, crafts, legos, you know, the tiny things that have a place somewhere but not here and no one really wants to put them away right this minute. Those small things don’t bother me so much when I have a place to temporarily keep them, so the tray in our foyer also pulls double duty during the day when not being used as the man drop spot. In ideal world, my kids would grab their littles from this spot at the end of the day and return them to where they go, but that doesn’t always happen of course. Things do pile up and we do a clean up sweep every once in a while, but just having a temporary place for them to stay helps in a big way.
An area where I still need some work: Paperwork. I tend to deal with mail pretty quickly as it comes in- throw out the junk and deal with what I need to deal with. But school paperwork is another story. It piles up and has been pretty hard for me to handle! There’s just so much of it especially with having two in school this year! I have this hanging in between our kitchen and breakfast nook that I use but truthfully, it rarely gets checked and cleaned out.
I end up just making a pile on the kitchen counter because that will motivate me to look at it, deal with it, and clean it up. Anyone have any school paperwork solutions for me? I’d love to hear!
And what are the spots in your home that trigger frustration for you? How can you rethink your home to make it work for you?
As always, thanks so much for reading, hope you have a wonderful weekend and a Happy Halloween!