The week that I started this blog, I had a very vivid dream. I dreamed we were living in a beautiful, pristine, glossy-magazine worthy home. And we had this beautiful chestnut horse. The horse was wild and free and absolutely stunning. Rippling muscles, shiny black hair. I know absolutely nothing about horses in my real life, but in my dream, this horse was just the most beautiful thing. I just knew this horse would be the perfect thing to frame behind glass in my perfect home. Now this is dream world, so I framed the horse as though it were actually possible. After a few days of looking at the horse behind the glass, I watched it burst out to be wild and free again. But instead of running through the house to show off it’s beautiful muscles and shiny hair, it was moping and whimpering, hanging its head, barely walking. In my dream, we had to call a vet and the beautiful horse had to be put down. All because I had tried to frame the horse.
Maybe it sounds silly, I don’t know, but I still get chills thinking about this dream. It has really stuck with me. I’m no dream expert but it just seems like the horse has to do with creativity, art, or passion.
The minute I started this blog, I felt the weight, the glass, pressing in around me. I put it there myself: the incessant checking of stats, the self comparison, the sinking realization that there are a million other house bloggers out there doing this too. They do it better, have more followers, have better pictures, have a better website, and on and on and on. The self-doubt, the anxiety, all of it, choking, pressing, stifling. It doesn’t take long for my breath to fog up the glass of this frame I put around myself and all of a sudden, I can’t see or remember what I’m doing here anymore.
That’s not to say a horse running wild in my house would be a good thing either. I came across this by the wise Ann Voskamp in her book One Thousand Gifts the other day:
“Stress and anxiety seem easier. Easier to let a mind run wild with the worry than to exercise discipline, to reign her in, slip the blinders on and train her to walk steady in certain assurance, not spooked by the specters looming ahead.”
I’ve been tuned in to horse metaphors since having that dream, as you can see. I’ve let the stress run wild. I’ve put the passion in a frame. I want this site, this little place I’ve dreamed about for a while now, to live up to my tag line and be what I started it to be: a place of beauty & purpose. I guess I’m not exactly sure what that purpose is just yet but I do know that I need to focus on what’s in front of me now, what God’s given me to do. I don’t have to strive and worry about having the best or newest ideas to show you. I just want to be who God created me to be. No pretenses. No frames.
Thanks for reading.